valkyrie’s journey

Ending an affair is always the hardest. Most of the time, men would much rather drop hints and hope that you girls get the message. But to be honest, some girls just can’t get it. Here are the most common hints we guys usually give when we want out of a relationship.

It’s time to say goodbye if…

1. He ends his most recent letter and notes with "sincerely."

2. After a so-so date, he walks you up to your doorstep but keeps the motor runnin. Talk about itching to leave!

3. He starts saying taht drinking and smoking are good for your health. And going out with guys who look like the thugs you see on Sylvester Stallone films will do you social like good.

4. His idea of a perfect celebration of Valentine’s Day is staying at home. You are at your parents house and he with his friends.

5. He hasn’t visited or called for a whole month.

6. Everytime you make love about not getting enought stimulation, hedrops a dictionary on your lap and tells you that word power can be very stimulating.

7. He starts talking about how unhygienic kissing is. And for consolation, he just ruffles your hair and pats you on the back. Doesn’t it look like a typical greeting to a very loyal dog?

8. He only dances with you during the fast numbers. He sits through the slow and romantic ones.

9 He keeps looking at his watch everytime you’re out together.

10. He’s been telling you how much a ‘nice girl’ you are too often.

11. Every time you go out with friends, he offers to bring everyone home but you always get off first.

12. Your parents are not home, you’re turned down the lights low and you’ve put on sweet music and all he does is play with your dog.

13. You’re wearing this seductive black negligee and he asks, "Don’t you feel itchy with that?"

14. He calls your favorite song unaddorable.

15. He forgets your birthday and doesn’t remember what month your anniversary falls on.

16. You start hearing smacking and giggling over the phone while he tells you he’s sick and can’t go to your date.

17. He starts getting irritated with your jokes. He never fails to remind you how ‘corny’ they are.

18. Everytime you kiss him he starts telling you about how your passion can turn into a mental disease. Now that is really taking it too far!

19. He starts telling you that getting married is such a stupid and worthless idea.

20. He comes home really excited and tells you that he just met the "perfect" man for you.

I hope this article can help you so that you can adjust or ask your love one if he still love you.

Have a nice day!

Who wants to live alone? In our couple-oriented society, some people don’t want to live alone. They believe that a person can’t obtain a balanced and happy life when he or she treads the path of life all by him or herself.

Leading a single life has been fashion in some part of the globe, especially in Western countries. Living life alone is regarded as an opportunity to know one’s self better. It’s a way to commune with one’s self in privacy, and gain insights on what one wants in life without any pressure being exerted by somebody.

A friend who has been living alone for ten years now relates the wondrous things she found out from being single. “I’ve learned to respect myself, define who I am in a cleaver perspective, and hitch my wagon to the stars to pursue new, creative and enjoyable experiences without the pressure of another person,” she says.

“In living alone,” says my friend Hannah May Perez “there is complete freedom. It gives one the opportunity to experience the joys of being free. It allows one’s self for a wide variety of experiences. People who live alone have found rare form of personal security. They are able to rely upon themselves entirely. They have the freedom to mange their time and their lives in any way they chose.”

Hannah adds: living alone is looking to yourself, being able to depend on yourself, and being on your own. Some people opted for BN relationships or Better Than Nothing no matter how unproductive or unfulfilling these relationships are. They cannot imagine themselves living alone, and they don’t have the guys and heart to face the anxiety and fear of living alone.

Advocates of single life hood believe that these apprehensions will simply pass away like any storm in life. They explain, way like any storm in life. The explain, “There are man ways of finding a happy, rewarding life alone. All it takes is a single step at a time.”